Showing posts with label How to say no to sex. Show all posts
Showing posts with label How to say no to sex. Show all posts
Wednesday, August 17, 2011
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Sunday, August 14, 2011
How long is a piece of string?
My teenage daughter loves to ask me questions that I have no possible way of knowing the answer. When will the power come back on? Do you think we'll get the generator working this time? When will the fuel shortage be over? Where do you think the housekeeper put my Garfield t-shirt? Eventually last night I turned around to face her and said, "How long is a piece of string?"
The truth is that we are often faced with questions for which we don't know the answers. This can cause anxiety if you let the unknown get to you, but if you learn to just chillax and go with the flow, handle each day as it comes and try not to plan too far ahead, you'll be okay. We adapt and why waste time and energy worrying about things completely out of our control.
What we know is that at the moment in Moshi, Tanzania, we will have at least 8 hours out of every 24 without power. Sometimes it can be more than 8 hours. There is a schedule which TANESCO doesn't stick to, so you are never entirely sure when you'll have power or not. Apparently the power cuts are because the Tanzanian government didn't think it necessary to plan ahead for a growing population. Now the power stations are old and shutting down, and the new ones they are supposedly building will only be ready in 2013, so until then I can't see the power situation improving. One just has to get creative and fork out the money for a generator.
This past week the power cuts have been compounded by a fuel shortage. The price of fuel has been increasing at an alarming rate and the government, bless their cotton socks, decided to step in and take action. They have now made a law that fuel has to be sold at a much cheaper price dictated by them. As you can imagine, the suppliers to the fuel stations are seeing their large profits made on the backs of the impoverished population decreasing, so they have refused to supply fuel at the government dictated prices. The result, the majority of fuel stations have shut down and put up barricades. Those selling fuel have long queues and run out of fuel quite quickly. If you are running a generator to cope with the power cuts, this is a big problem. If you love watching rugby on TV and are eagerly awaiting the rugby world cup, then this can be a possible catastrophe. Writing has to be put on hold as there is only so much you can do on the laptop before the battery dies.
My book sales are continuing to climb which is a highlight at present in an otherwise dark and gloomy world. The recent riots in England made me think I'd rather have our power problems than that. Imagine what you must feel as a parent if you see your child looting shops on the television news. Would you report them to the police?
So how much longer will all of this continue? How long is a piece of string?
Have a great week!
Cindy
The truth is that we are often faced with questions for which we don't know the answers. This can cause anxiety if you let the unknown get to you, but if you learn to just chillax and go with the flow, handle each day as it comes and try not to plan too far ahead, you'll be okay. We adapt and why waste time and energy worrying about things completely out of our control.
What we know is that at the moment in Moshi, Tanzania, we will have at least 8 hours out of every 24 without power. Sometimes it can be more than 8 hours. There is a schedule which TANESCO doesn't stick to, so you are never entirely sure when you'll have power or not. Apparently the power cuts are because the Tanzanian government didn't think it necessary to plan ahead for a growing population. Now the power stations are old and shutting down, and the new ones they are supposedly building will only be ready in 2013, so until then I can't see the power situation improving. One just has to get creative and fork out the money for a generator.
This past week the power cuts have been compounded by a fuel shortage. The price of fuel has been increasing at an alarming rate and the government, bless their cotton socks, decided to step in and take action. They have now made a law that fuel has to be sold at a much cheaper price dictated by them. As you can imagine, the suppliers to the fuel stations are seeing their large profits made on the backs of the impoverished population decreasing, so they have refused to supply fuel at the government dictated prices. The result, the majority of fuel stations have shut down and put up barricades. Those selling fuel have long queues and run out of fuel quite quickly. If you are running a generator to cope with the power cuts, this is a big problem. If you love watching rugby on TV and are eagerly awaiting the rugby world cup, then this can be a possible catastrophe. Writing has to be put on hold as there is only so much you can do on the laptop before the battery dies.
My book sales are continuing to climb which is a highlight at present in an otherwise dark and gloomy world. The recent riots in England made me think I'd rather have our power problems than that. Imagine what you must feel as a parent if you see your child looting shops on the television news. Would you report them to the police?
So how much longer will all of this continue? How long is a piece of string?
Have a great week!
Cindy
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Book Trailer that will make you smile!
Siobhan is very sneaky. She should have been punished but instead I confiscated her video footage and decided to use it to make a book trailer.
I have to explain how it all happened.
She was watching music videos on Youtube on her macbook, as you do when you are a teenager. She told me to watch one of the videos and the music was so catchy I started to dance. Well, not quite. More like gyrate around in my chair moving body parts randomly not always in time to the music.
Now for the sneaky part.
The little blighter videoed me with her webcam. The page showing my spontaneous contortions in my chair was hidden behind the Youtube video so I was completely unaware of what she was doing.
However, what a great bit of footage to use to advertise my latest self-help book, How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single. After watching me dance, I'm sure you'll agree, I definitely need as much help as I can get!
Enjoy the book trailer and hope it brings a smile to your face!
Cindy
I have to explain how it all happened.
She was watching music videos on Youtube on her macbook, as you do when you are a teenager. She told me to watch one of the videos and the music was so catchy I started to dance. Well, not quite. More like gyrate around in my chair moving body parts randomly not always in time to the music.
Now for the sneaky part.
The little blighter videoed me with her webcam. The page showing my spontaneous contortions in my chair was hidden behind the Youtube video so I was completely unaware of what she was doing.
However, what a great bit of footage to use to advertise my latest self-help book, How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single. After watching me dance, I'm sure you'll agree, I definitely need as much help as I can get!
Enjoy the book trailer and hope it brings a smile to your face!
Cindy
Sunday, July 31, 2011
When you discover genius you need to share it!
In life, every now and then you stumble upon somebody exceptional, blessed with a gift, a talent, that needs to be shouted out to the world. I am lucky to have crossed paths with such a person, a genius, magician, someone who can take the mere smidgen of an idea that you haven't even properly formulated yourself, and turn it into cover art that is amazing.
That person, ladies and gentlemen, is Cris Advincula. A true artist who can read your mind and create an image that is just perfect.
Cris has now designed four of my book covers. If you want to procure his services, you can contact him via message on Facebook.
And this is the amazing thing about the world today and how far technology has come. As you know I live in the wop-wops in Tanzania. My editor, Rob Stark, lives in Enfield near London in the UK. Cris, my cover designer, lives in the Philippines. My books are published in the USA. And we can achieve all of this through the internet. Mind-blowing stuff which sadly we are beginning to take for granted.
Cris, you are amazing, talented, gifted. I just wanted to shout that out to the world.
Cindy
That person, ladies and gentlemen, is Cris Advincula. A true artist who can read your mind and create an image that is just perfect.
Cris has now designed four of my book covers. If you want to procure his services, you can contact him via message on Facebook.
And this is the amazing thing about the world today and how far technology has come. As you know I live in the wop-wops in Tanzania. My editor, Rob Stark, lives in Enfield near London in the UK. Cris, my cover designer, lives in the Philippines. My books are published in the USA. And we can achieve all of this through the internet. Mind-blowing stuff which sadly we are beginning to take for granted.
Cris, you are amazing, talented, gifted. I just wanted to shout that out to the world.
Cindy
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
This is Africa
It didn’t seem possible. There were just so many hurdles we had to jump. But tonight, as I relax in our new house, I know that all things are possible.
Our last few days in Cape Town flew by in a rush, frantic last minute goodbyes, creative packing. In the end we ran out of time and couldn’t see friends and family just one more time. We tried to avoid shopping as much as we usually do; experience has taught us that trying to stuff our purchased treasures in our limited luggage causes more stress than the treasures are actually worth. However, Siobhan still managed to go crazy in the clothing stores. This holiday will be remembered for the time spent with old friends and relatives not seen for a few years, babysitting the nephews, researching the family history, seeing some good movies, eating out a lot at great restaurants but most of all - spending time with Tony before he started his last 10 week prac block at a 5 star hotel near where he stays. It’s the same with Kerri now. You have to make the most of the time they spend with you as they pursue their own lives. I guess that’s what happens when your kids leave home. At least I still have two more years with Siobhan before she leaves the nest.
Our flight home wouldn’t have been normal if we didn’t have some drama. We arrived at the airport in time for our 6.15am flight last Wednesday, only to find out that the travel agent had cocked up Siobhan’s flight yet again. On the way here he’d accidentally booked Siobhan’s Joburg to Cape Town flight ten days later than mine. Going back, he had her on an earlier flight than mine which had already closed! The last time we had to buy her a new ticket on my flight; this time they said my flight was full. They could either get her on a business class flight in an hour’s time (which I’d have to pay for) or another flight in an hour and a half-s time. Obviously I’d have to pay for that as well. Siobhan, always a great actress, managed to look tearful and the supervisor at the check-in instructed the attendant there to just issue Siobhan with a boarding pass. We managed to get her on the full flight without paying in, and all the drama made them rush our luggage through and not notice that we were actually 20kg overweight! The rest of the flight was uneventful. They didn’t even manage to lose our luggage which was quite a miracle for us. Unfortunately, the driver didn’t turn up to fetch us from the airport. We heard the next day he arrived an hour later and by then we’d already left by taxi. The excuse given was the very stale, “This is Africa.” It really makes me mad when people say that. This isn’t Africa. I’ve lived in five different African countries. This is Tanzania. TIT. Of course, there was no power when we arrived back at night. It came back 26 hours later!
They had 5 weeks to paint the new house, but were still busy so we couldn’t start our move. It seemed like we’d never get to start the move across. Thursday they told us they’d finish Friday; Friday they said it would be Saturday; and this carried on until they eventually finished Monday night. Over the weekend we started to move in anyway, living between the two houses in utter chaos. It didn’t seem like we’d ever be able to complete the move before the new teachers arrive at the end of the week. But we have, we did; and just a few more trips from the other house and we’re done.
We’ve been promised that Tanzania’s power woes are set to get worse until 2013. Charming. So I decided to buy a generator that works this time. The last one still sits unused in the garage of the old house. Manufacturing fault, it never worked, and the fundi who tried to fix it removed the safety shield so that when Siobhan and I tried to pull the whipcord - I got whipped in the face and Siobhan got whipped across her back. Not very pretty. We found one in town that starts with a key and I bought it today. No more pulling of whipcords. But Murphy’s Law, we’ve had power all day and all night so far. It only went out between 6-7pm and we didn’t bother to start the new generator. When the power woes resume, we are ready.
With all that’s been going on there’s been no time to write. Not just no time, but too many distractions to stop me from getting into my special writing zone. Hopefully, the end of this week will be the end of the distractions. I can’t wait to start writing again. I’m working on two projects at the moment. Redesigning Yourself for the Multi-tasking Generation with Jeremy Sherr and Meet U @ 8, a novel inspired by my eldest daughter, Kerri.
My book sales this month have gone from strength to strength - mind-blowingly so. How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single is now available on Kindle, iPad, Nook and Sony with the paperback edition available soon. If you know someone who is struggling to cope after a break-up, then this book will make an ideal gift for them. I received a great comment from a book club. “Cindy Vine is a phenomenal author with the ability to pull you right into her stories. She is destined to go far in the literary field!” — Greatmindsthinkaloud Bookclub on Jul 23, 2011
The news of late us been dominated by two awful events. The attacks in Norway, and the death of Amy Winehouse. I’d like to offer my condolences to all who lost loved ones in Norway. It’s so sad when someone’s political beliefs warp their sense of what is right and wrong. Amy Winehouse’s death is tragic. We all saw it coming but couldn’t stop it. Like bystanders on a platform at the station watching a train power headlong into a girl standing transfixed on the tracks. So young, only 27, the same age as some other famous musicians who died at that age. I can only imagine how devastated her family and close friends must be feeling. So talented, so full of love, such a waste. RIP Amy Winehouse.
Our last few days in Cape Town flew by in a rush, frantic last minute goodbyes, creative packing. In the end we ran out of time and couldn’t see friends and family just one more time. We tried to avoid shopping as much as we usually do; experience has taught us that trying to stuff our purchased treasures in our limited luggage causes more stress than the treasures are actually worth. However, Siobhan still managed to go crazy in the clothing stores. This holiday will be remembered for the time spent with old friends and relatives not seen for a few years, babysitting the nephews, researching the family history, seeing some good movies, eating out a lot at great restaurants but most of all - spending time with Tony before he started his last 10 week prac block at a 5 star hotel near where he stays. It’s the same with Kerri now. You have to make the most of the time they spend with you as they pursue their own lives. I guess that’s what happens when your kids leave home. At least I still have two more years with Siobhan before she leaves the nest.
Our flight home wouldn’t have been normal if we didn’t have some drama. We arrived at the airport in time for our 6.15am flight last Wednesday, only to find out that the travel agent had cocked up Siobhan’s flight yet again. On the way here he’d accidentally booked Siobhan’s Joburg to Cape Town flight ten days later than mine. Going back, he had her on an earlier flight than mine which had already closed! The last time we had to buy her a new ticket on my flight; this time they said my flight was full. They could either get her on a business class flight in an hour’s time (which I’d have to pay for) or another flight in an hour and a half-s time. Obviously I’d have to pay for that as well. Siobhan, always a great actress, managed to look tearful and the supervisor at the check-in instructed the attendant there to just issue Siobhan with a boarding pass. We managed to get her on the full flight without paying in, and all the drama made them rush our luggage through and not notice that we were actually 20kg overweight! The rest of the flight was uneventful. They didn’t even manage to lose our luggage which was quite a miracle for us. Unfortunately, the driver didn’t turn up to fetch us from the airport. We heard the next day he arrived an hour later and by then we’d already left by taxi. The excuse given was the very stale, “This is Africa.” It really makes me mad when people say that. This isn’t Africa. I’ve lived in five different African countries. This is Tanzania. TIT. Of course, there was no power when we arrived back at night. It came back 26 hours later!
They had 5 weeks to paint the new house, but were still busy so we couldn’t start our move. It seemed like we’d never get to start the move across. Thursday they told us they’d finish Friday; Friday they said it would be Saturday; and this carried on until they eventually finished Monday night. Over the weekend we started to move in anyway, living between the two houses in utter chaos. It didn’t seem like we’d ever be able to complete the move before the new teachers arrive at the end of the week. But we have, we did; and just a few more trips from the other house and we’re done.
We’ve been promised that Tanzania’s power woes are set to get worse until 2013. Charming. So I decided to buy a generator that works this time. The last one still sits unused in the garage of the old house. Manufacturing fault, it never worked, and the fundi who tried to fix it removed the safety shield so that when Siobhan and I tried to pull the whipcord - I got whipped in the face and Siobhan got whipped across her back. Not very pretty. We found one in town that starts with a key and I bought it today. No more pulling of whipcords. But Murphy’s Law, we’ve had power all day and all night so far. It only went out between 6-7pm and we didn’t bother to start the new generator. When the power woes resume, we are ready.
With all that’s been going on there’s been no time to write. Not just no time, but too many distractions to stop me from getting into my special writing zone. Hopefully, the end of this week will be the end of the distractions. I can’t wait to start writing again. I’m working on two projects at the moment. Redesigning Yourself for the Multi-tasking Generation with Jeremy Sherr and Meet U @ 8, a novel inspired by my eldest daughter, Kerri.
My book sales this month have gone from strength to strength - mind-blowingly so. How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single is now available on Kindle, iPad, Nook and Sony with the paperback edition available soon. If you know someone who is struggling to cope after a break-up, then this book will make an ideal gift for them. I received a great comment from a book club. “Cindy Vine is a phenomenal author with the ability to pull you right into her stories. She is destined to go far in the literary field!” — Greatmindsthinkaloud Bookclub on Jul 23, 2011
The news of late us been dominated by two awful events. The attacks in Norway, and the death of Amy Winehouse. I’d like to offer my condolences to all who lost loved ones in Norway. It’s so sad when someone’s political beliefs warp their sense of what is right and wrong. Amy Winehouse’s death is tragic. We all saw it coming but couldn’t stop it. Like bystanders on a platform at the station watching a train power headlong into a girl standing transfixed on the tracks. So young, only 27, the same age as some other famous musicians who died at that age. I can only imagine how devastated her family and close friends must be feeling. So talented, so full of love, such a waste. RIP Amy Winehouse.
Monday, July 18, 2011
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Saturday, July 9, 2011
Thursday, June 30, 2011
One book finished, time to work on the next
This book took a lot longer than I thought it would, but inbetween doctors' appointments managed to get all the final edits and re-writes done. I have to thank Rob Stark, my editor, for the hard work he put into what is probably quite a 'girlie' book. How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single is now available on Amazon Kindle. After completing the editing and re-writes, the biggest mission by far was working on getting the formatting right for Kindle and then changing it all again for Smashwords. I hate that MS Word thinks it knows more than you and tries to make all decisions for you. And even when you try and change their choices, it says its changed but the man uscript stays the same. Highly frustrating and almost laptop-flinging stuff.
Cape Town is great! I love being back even though it is the middle of winter here and you have very crappy days. There are too many temptations here though, all the good restaurants, movies, you can spend up a storm without too much difficulty.
Researching the family is taking up some of my time as well. My uncle reckons I'm a nosey parker and can't understand why the past fascinates me. It's not like I want to write a book on the family history or anything, but their lives are sort of intriguing.
This nagging cough of mine is getting quite depressing, as it's worse at night and keeps me awake when all I want to do is sleep. I have been to the doctor, am on antibiotics which don't seem to be doing too much. Siobhan and I have had a few doctor's appointments the past two weeks. I've decided not to fight medical insurance for the other op I need as with this cough, they won't be able to operate during this holiday anyway. I'm still debating whether or not to have the cancer gene test the oncologist wants me to have. Do I really want to know if I carry the cancer gene? There just seems to be something morally and ethically wrong about knowing. Maybe I'm just a coward.
I'm almost in THE ZONE to start planning my next novel. Am going for a funny humorous story this time. I have the title already, Meet u @ 8.
Great rugby on this weekend! Remember to cheer for the Stormers even if you don't know who they are~!
Have a great weekend!
love
Cindy
Cape Town is great! I love being back even though it is the middle of winter here and you have very crappy days. There are too many temptations here though, all the good restaurants, movies, you can spend up a storm without too much difficulty.
Researching the family is taking up some of my time as well. My uncle reckons I'm a nosey parker and can't understand why the past fascinates me. It's not like I want to write a book on the family history or anything, but their lives are sort of intriguing.
This nagging cough of mine is getting quite depressing, as it's worse at night and keeps me awake when all I want to do is sleep. I have been to the doctor, am on antibiotics which don't seem to be doing too much. Siobhan and I have had a few doctor's appointments the past two weeks. I've decided not to fight medical insurance for the other op I need as with this cough, they won't be able to operate during this holiday anyway. I'm still debating whether or not to have the cancer gene test the oncologist wants me to have. Do I really want to know if I carry the cancer gene? There just seems to be something morally and ethically wrong about knowing. Maybe I'm just a coward.
I'm almost in THE ZONE to start planning my next novel. Am going for a funny humorous story this time. I have the title already, Meet u @ 8.
Great rugby on this weekend! Remember to cheer for the Stormers even if you don't know who they are~!
Have a great weekend!
love
Cindy
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Sunday, June 19, 2011
Coughing my way to Cape Town
The last few weeks buzzed past in a blur of reports, end of term dramas and bouts of acute coughing fits. I'd like to state categorically that I hate coughing. This cough that attacked me is one of the most annoying ever. I just wish it would respond to medication and disappear. Where is Harry Potter when I need him? With a wave of his magic wand he'll make my cough go with a poof!
Despite the cough the term still managed to wind to an end with a few great barbecues as highlights. The sad part of the end of any school year is saying goodbye to colleagues who are moving on. It's one of the negative parts of international school teaching. Saying goodbye always means that things are going to change, new people are going to come in and things won't be the same. But different isn't bad and is often better. Change is hard though and as I get older, it becomes more difficult to cope with.
Like today when I decided to visit my favourite shopping centre in Cape Town, Tygervalley. All I wanted was a haircut. But they are revamping, you can't get where you want to go, shops have been temporarily closed, construction is everywhere. And I was miffed to put it mildly and just wanted to go home. This is when I thinks change sucks and I can't cope with it anymore. I know the finished product is going to make it a better shopping experience than it was before. Well, that's what all the billboards tell me. But that doesn't placate me. My hairdresser has disappeared and I'm disappointed. When I'm disappointed, then I'm not in the right frame of mind to handle change. I don't think I'll return to Tygervalley this holiday.
We're lucky we managed to arrive in Cape Town. The travel agent cocked up Siobhan's flight which I hadn't picked up. For our Joburg to Cape Town connection, instead of the 18 June, the agent had 28 June. After buying a new ticket for her it was sorted. Then while waiting for the plane to take-off, the pilot informs us that the plane is delayed while technicians quickly perform some repairs. Very motivating that was. Especially when he says the repairs are necessary as they have our safety at heart. While we were waiting the cabin crew escorted the three young drunk girls sitting behind us to the galley for a lecture on decorum on a plane. They were told to pull themselves together or leave the plane. Entertainment for the rest of us sitting waiting for an hour before the plane was fixed. Because of the technical problem, the plane had to low-fly below the clouds instead of above them.
As we arrived in Cape Town, the pilot announced we were the last flight to leave or arrive for the night as all other flights were cancelled because of the volcanic ash cloud that had arrived from Chile. So we were lucky we'd just escaped that.
So here we are in Cape Town and we have power. I can't describe how wonderful that is. The last few months in Tanzania the power has been the pits with daily power cuts. Despite the power cuts, or should I say - in spite of the power cuts, I managed to finish the first draft of How to say no to sex and other survival tips for the suddenly single. Now the editing and rewriting process begins.
If you're on holiday now then I hope you have a fantastic relaxing stress-free break. If you're at work, as they say in Swahili, "Pole sane!"
love
Cindy
Despite the cough the term still managed to wind to an end with a few great barbecues as highlights. The sad part of the end of any school year is saying goodbye to colleagues who are moving on. It's one of the negative parts of international school teaching. Saying goodbye always means that things are going to change, new people are going to come in and things won't be the same. But different isn't bad and is often better. Change is hard though and as I get older, it becomes more difficult to cope with.
Like today when I decided to visit my favourite shopping centre in Cape Town, Tygervalley. All I wanted was a haircut. But they are revamping, you can't get where you want to go, shops have been temporarily closed, construction is everywhere. And I was miffed to put it mildly and just wanted to go home. This is when I thinks change sucks and I can't cope with it anymore. I know the finished product is going to make it a better shopping experience than it was before. Well, that's what all the billboards tell me. But that doesn't placate me. My hairdresser has disappeared and I'm disappointed. When I'm disappointed, then I'm not in the right frame of mind to handle change. I don't think I'll return to Tygervalley this holiday.
We're lucky we managed to arrive in Cape Town. The travel agent cocked up Siobhan's flight which I hadn't picked up. For our Joburg to Cape Town connection, instead of the 18 June, the agent had 28 June. After buying a new ticket for her it was sorted. Then while waiting for the plane to take-off, the pilot informs us that the plane is delayed while technicians quickly perform some repairs. Very motivating that was. Especially when he says the repairs are necessary as they have our safety at heart. While we were waiting the cabin crew escorted the three young drunk girls sitting behind us to the galley for a lecture on decorum on a plane. They were told to pull themselves together or leave the plane. Entertainment for the rest of us sitting waiting for an hour before the plane was fixed. Because of the technical problem, the plane had to low-fly below the clouds instead of above them.
As we arrived in Cape Town, the pilot announced we were the last flight to leave or arrive for the night as all other flights were cancelled because of the volcanic ash cloud that had arrived from Chile. So we were lucky we'd just escaped that.
So here we are in Cape Town and we have power. I can't describe how wonderful that is. The last few months in Tanzania the power has been the pits with daily power cuts. Despite the power cuts, or should I say - in spite of the power cuts, I managed to finish the first draft of How to say no to sex and other survival tips for the suddenly single. Now the editing and rewriting process begins.
If you're on holiday now then I hope you have a fantastic relaxing stress-free break. If you're at work, as they say in Swahili, "Pole sane!"
love
Cindy
Wednesday, May 25, 2011
Just when you thought things were slowing down...
That cottage by the sea and lawn bowls at the club every Wednesday afternoon sounds more and more tempting by the day. But knowing me, I'll be bored after the first week. I've come to realise that my life has to be non-stop action and out of control for me to be truely happy.
Our Grade 5 Exhibition was a huge success with students raising money for many causes. When you see the Action they take, then you realise what a brilliant programme the PYP is.
This past weekend five staff took 27 little darlings down to Dar-es-Salaam for the big primary schools swimming gala and football tournament. After a dubious start where the bus company delivered a bus that probably wouldn't have made it to the nearest fuel station in one piece (no seat belts and the seats were all loose and sliding everywhere) there was no way it would last the 10 hour bus trip to Dar. But that was just typical of Tanzania. And here I'd thought they'd think me anal retentive for phoning them twice a week for the last two months to confirm we'd be getting a new bus with seat belts!
The great hotel Siobhan and I had stayed in last year (Q Bar), granted it had been during the week, proved to be a bad recommendation for one of the parents. Friday nights at the Q-Bar is obviously a no-no, with blaring loud music and prostitutes plying their trade in the rooms at night. He said he couldn't sleep, and tried to think of a polite way to describe the sounds of sex penetrating through his walls. I suggested 'Humpy Bumpy' and he fell in love with that, managing to include 'Humpy Bumpy' in every conversation from then on. I'm not sure what his wife will think when he shares his new vocab with her when he gets back home.
The kids did so well, the seniors coming second out of nine schools in the swimming, and the girls placing third in the football. They definitely did us proud and it was great to reward them with a day of fun at the water park.
The trip back was long, with one kids dropping bad smells for twenty minutes solid, so that as the smell spread up the bus the kids would scream as it hit them like a Mexican wave. They all blamed one little boy who eventually burst into tears as he was blameless. No one likes being blamed for something they never did. The real culprit was the last off the bus at the toilet stop in the bushes along the side of the road. When we asked if he'd been the one farting, he just gave a sick smile and nodded his head sadly. He didn't even try and deny it, but the rest of the bus never knew it was him.
Now admin for next year, reports, all little bits and pieces, just enough to keep me from what I really want to do - write.
The power problems with Tanesco are getting worse. I've decided I need to buy a woman-friendly generator that starts with a push of a button or a key. No more of this pull-rope one that hits me in the face every time I try it after the fundi removed the safety cover to make it work better! Work better? I laugh in his general direction! The blasted thing, brand new out the box, has never worked since I bought it in November!
I'm hoping to get the first draft of How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single finished before the holidays start, but I'm not sure if that is realistic of me.
My book sales, especially on Kindle, are going crazy, and I've sold over 1000 in May for the first time. If you've got a Kindle, an iPad, a Sony E-reader or a Nook, you need to check out my books which are available on all those formats, as well as on Amazon.com as Paperbacks.
I'm thinking, maybe after this week things will start to slow down for the holidays...
Cheers,
Cindy
Our Grade 5 Exhibition was a huge success with students raising money for many causes. When you see the Action they take, then you realise what a brilliant programme the PYP is.
This past weekend five staff took 27 little darlings down to Dar-es-Salaam for the big primary schools swimming gala and football tournament. After a dubious start where the bus company delivered a bus that probably wouldn't have made it to the nearest fuel station in one piece (no seat belts and the seats were all loose and sliding everywhere) there was no way it would last the 10 hour bus trip to Dar. But that was just typical of Tanzania. And here I'd thought they'd think me anal retentive for phoning them twice a week for the last two months to confirm we'd be getting a new bus with seat belts!
The great hotel Siobhan and I had stayed in last year (Q Bar), granted it had been during the week, proved to be a bad recommendation for one of the parents. Friday nights at the Q-Bar is obviously a no-no, with blaring loud music and prostitutes plying their trade in the rooms at night. He said he couldn't sleep, and tried to think of a polite way to describe the sounds of sex penetrating through his walls. I suggested 'Humpy Bumpy' and he fell in love with that, managing to include 'Humpy Bumpy' in every conversation from then on. I'm not sure what his wife will think when he shares his new vocab with her when he gets back home.
The kids did so well, the seniors coming second out of nine schools in the swimming, and the girls placing third in the football. They definitely did us proud and it was great to reward them with a day of fun at the water park.
The trip back was long, with one kids dropping bad smells for twenty minutes solid, so that as the smell spread up the bus the kids would scream as it hit them like a Mexican wave. They all blamed one little boy who eventually burst into tears as he was blameless. No one likes being blamed for something they never did. The real culprit was the last off the bus at the toilet stop in the bushes along the side of the road. When we asked if he'd been the one farting, he just gave a sick smile and nodded his head sadly. He didn't even try and deny it, but the rest of the bus never knew it was him.
Now admin for next year, reports, all little bits and pieces, just enough to keep me from what I really want to do - write.
The power problems with Tanesco are getting worse. I've decided I need to buy a woman-friendly generator that starts with a push of a button or a key. No more of this pull-rope one that hits me in the face every time I try it after the fundi removed the safety cover to make it work better! Work better? I laugh in his general direction! The blasted thing, brand new out the box, has never worked since I bought it in November!
I'm hoping to get the first draft of How to Say No to Sex and other Survival Tips for the Suddenly Single finished before the holidays start, but I'm not sure if that is realistic of me.
My book sales, especially on Kindle, are going crazy, and I've sold over 1000 in May for the first time. If you've got a Kindle, an iPad, a Sony E-reader or a Nook, you need to check out my books which are available on all those formats, as well as on Amazon.com as Paperbacks.
I'm thinking, maybe after this week things will start to slow down for the holidays...
Cheers,
Cindy
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Wonderful Watamu
The worst part of a holiday is that it ends. I think I could easily live the rest of my life on holiday. Unfortunately, commitments like children mean I have to keep working. But I can dream. How wonderful it would be to have enough money to be permanently on holiday.
Watamu was wonderful! Kenya is a great destination. It's about an hour and a half north of Mombasa depending on how fast you drive, and about half an hour south of Malindi, along the fabulous Kenyan coast.
We stayed at Turtle Bay Beach Club, all inclusive - all meals, drinks, snacks, etc, etc for approx $150 a night for the two of us. It was a bit less, but it's too early in the morning for my head to attempt conversion sums. That includes the use of their hobie catamarans, kit surfers etc. Siobhan even went scuba diving in the open sea and is now hooked. She swam with two stingrays. Seeing that she now wants to get a diving certificate, I guess that being permanently on holiday is not an option and I'll just have to keep working so I can keep paying.
Being addicted to history (I wonder if there's a 12-step program for it) I was keen to explore the Gede ruins about ten minutes drive from Turtle Bay. Interesting, seriously. The city state was abandoned when a drought caused wells to dry up, and people to die of disease in the 17th Century. It must have been magnificent in its day. Apparently, the people of Gede were peace-loving and refused to take sides when the Sultan of Mombasa was having a go at the Sultan of Malindi and they got caught in the middle. Another reason why the city was abandoned.
After that little taste of history, I was determined to continue following the Portuguese around the world, having already been to Angola, Mossel Bay, Mozambique, Goa, China and Malaysia. While Siobhan was diving on the coral reef, I headed north to Malindi which was where Vasca da Gama had stopped just before he visited Goa in India for the first time. I checked out the cross he put up in 1498 and the chapel he built the same year. A tiny limestone and thatch building, but the first church in East and Central Africa. Very cool.
Much to Siobhan's (and probably mine) chagrin we had to leave Watamu, vowing to return whenever we could.
We stopped off at Saltlick again on our way back after taking a shortcut through the back of beyond on some hair-raising dirt roads. This time we saw the most amazing sight, a herd of over 40 elephants, many tiny calves that were still small enough to walk underneath their mother's bellies, descend on the watering hole. Siobhan took the most stunning photographs, and I told her she might need ton re-think studying drama and rather focus on photography. I made the silly mistake after being so caught up viewing her great shots, that I stupidly promised her a fantastic camera for her sixteenth birthday in September. I guess that means I have to add a few more years onto my working life before I can retire to a cottage next to the sea.
You can see the rest of the Watamu photos here
Back at school now and this hectic term has started off to be just that. I'm not sure how I'm going to manage to fit in some writing time, but will just have to give it a go. I have two book projects on the go at the moment - How to say no to sex for the suddenly single, and Redesigning yourself for the multi-tasking generation. And then of course Kerri and I stumbled upon this great idea for a novel when I wanted to advertise her skills on Facebook so that she can get a good and decent man.
I wish I had more time for my writing. I need that cottage by the sea so I can watch the waves from my window while I write up a storm. Sigh. My book sales for March and April have been sensational, hope it keeps up. Okay, enough about wonderful Watamu. I might just jump in my car and head back out there when I should be WRITING!Have a great week!
Cindy
Watamu was wonderful! Kenya is a great destination. It's about an hour and a half north of Mombasa depending on how fast you drive, and about half an hour south of Malindi, along the fabulous Kenyan coast.
We stayed at Turtle Bay Beach Club, all inclusive - all meals, drinks, snacks, etc, etc for approx $150 a night for the two of us. It was a bit less, but it's too early in the morning for my head to attempt conversion sums. That includes the use of their hobie catamarans, kit surfers etc. Siobhan even went scuba diving in the open sea and is now hooked. She swam with two stingrays. Seeing that she now wants to get a diving certificate, I guess that being permanently on holiday is not an option and I'll just have to keep working so I can keep paying.
Being addicted to history (I wonder if there's a 12-step program for it) I was keen to explore the Gede ruins about ten minutes drive from Turtle Bay. Interesting, seriously. The city state was abandoned when a drought caused wells to dry up, and people to die of disease in the 17th Century. It must have been magnificent in its day. Apparently, the people of Gede were peace-loving and refused to take sides when the Sultan of Mombasa was having a go at the Sultan of Malindi and they got caught in the middle. Another reason why the city was abandoned.
After that little taste of history, I was determined to continue following the Portuguese around the world, having already been to Angola, Mossel Bay, Mozambique, Goa, China and Malaysia. While Siobhan was diving on the coral reef, I headed north to Malindi which was where Vasca da Gama had stopped just before he visited Goa in India for the first time. I checked out the cross he put up in 1498 and the chapel he built the same year. A tiny limestone and thatch building, but the first church in East and Central Africa. Very cool.
Much to Siobhan's (and probably mine) chagrin we had to leave Watamu, vowing to return whenever we could.
We stopped off at Saltlick again on our way back after taking a shortcut through the back of beyond on some hair-raising dirt roads. This time we saw the most amazing sight, a herd of over 40 elephants, many tiny calves that were still small enough to walk underneath their mother's bellies, descend on the watering hole. Siobhan took the most stunning photographs, and I told her she might need ton re-think studying drama and rather focus on photography. I made the silly mistake after being so caught up viewing her great shots, that I stupidly promised her a fantastic camera for her sixteenth birthday in September. I guess that means I have to add a few more years onto my working life before I can retire to a cottage next to the sea.
You can see the rest of the Watamu photos here
Back at school now and this hectic term has started off to be just that. I'm not sure how I'm going to manage to fit in some writing time, but will just have to give it a go. I have two book projects on the go at the moment - How to say no to sex for the suddenly single, and Redesigning yourself for the multi-tasking generation. And then of course Kerri and I stumbled upon this great idea for a novel when I wanted to advertise her skills on Facebook so that she can get a good and decent man.
I wish I had more time for my writing. I need that cottage by the sea so I can watch the waves from my window while I write up a storm. Sigh. My book sales for March and April have been sensational, hope it keeps up. Okay, enough about wonderful Watamu. I might just jump in my car and head back out there when I should be WRITING!Cindy
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Hiccuping into the Holidays
Have you ever wonder why nothing in life is simple, not even a holiday? There always has to be some kind of little hiccup to raise your blood pressure. School finished early on Wednesday morning and I should have been bouncing up and down, ready to bound off for the holidays like everybody else. No. I had to wake up Wednesday early morning, with chronic stomach gramps, terrible runs and nausea that made me gag when I tried to brush my teeth. It did bring back memories of early pregnancies, that gagging while brushing the teeth bit, but alas or luckily, it would have to be divine intervention for that to be the case, and it wasn't. I tried to attend school for the last day, but every time I opened my mouth to speak to someone, I had to quickly place my hand in front of my mouth to stop what felt like projectile vomiting. I was in a bad way, not a good start to the holiday.
I went home and collapsed on the bed, in too much pain and feeling too weak to do anything else. Thursday passed in a blur of toilet visits and sleep, Friday my stomach still cramped, the runs still ran frequently, but the nausea had disappeared. A miraculous improvement! The day improved further when I found my car's missing papers which I needed if we were going to cross the border to Kenya the next week. That had given me some serious sleepless nights. I took my overheating car to the fundi and he found out that all it was was a holey hose, so that was another relief. Things were looking up, then the cramps started working overtime and I had to head once more to the safety of my bed.
Saturday was still a little queasy and the fact my rugby team the Stormers lost the first time this season, brought on more cramps. Sunday I managed to do quite a bit of work on How to say no to sex and other survival tips for the suddenly single. I felt good, better than I had for a while.
Monday morning 2am the power went out. The light from across the road gives a soft light in my room as I sleep with the curtains open so that a cool breeze can enter through my slat windows. Close the curtains and you suffocate from the heat. I woke up with a shock in deadly darkness. The nights are very dark here without power. That's how I knew it was 2am.
This is the second time now in the last couple of months that bastards stole some of the power cable, resulting in no power. The new generator I bought in November has never worked and twice been in to the fundi. Got it back yesterday, but it still doesn't work, so not only did I pay for a new generator, but I have to keep paying for the fundi to fix it and replace parts on a brand new generator. Sucks, doesn't it? The power came on again at 10pm after Siobhan and I played several scrabble games by candlelight.
But, what sucks the most, is we are supposed to be leaving tomorrow (Wednesday 13 April) for Kenya. Yesterday my car started overheating again, so in the afternoon I dropped it off with the fundi yet again. Whatever is causing the overheating must have made that hose burst. I just wish people here can do things right the first time, work quickly and efficiently. It's like my kitchen that's being renovated. They had five weeks to do it while I was away having surgery, but the started on the Friday before I returned on the Sunday. The result, three weeks later, is that I have a half-installed kitchen, no surface or bench-top to work on, all my pots, plates, groceries stacked on the floor and on the dining room table. Today, nobody came to do any work. Like I said, frustrating. If I ever get my car back in timeto go on this Kenyan holiday, I doubt I'll return to a completely renovated kitchen. My gut feelings is that this is going to drag on even longer.
Defective is out on Kindle, Sony and at Barnes and Noble and the Apple Store. You can see an exerpt here.
I went home and collapsed on the bed, in too much pain and feeling too weak to do anything else. Thursday passed in a blur of toilet visits and sleep, Friday my stomach still cramped, the runs still ran frequently, but the nausea had disappeared. A miraculous improvement! The day improved further when I found my car's missing papers which I needed if we were going to cross the border to Kenya the next week. That had given me some serious sleepless nights. I took my overheating car to the fundi and he found out that all it was was a holey hose, so that was another relief. Things were looking up, then the cramps started working overtime and I had to head once more to the safety of my bed.
Saturday was still a little queasy and the fact my rugby team the Stormers lost the first time this season, brought on more cramps. Sunday I managed to do quite a bit of work on How to say no to sex and other survival tips for the suddenly single. I felt good, better than I had for a while.
Monday morning 2am the power went out. The light from across the road gives a soft light in my room as I sleep with the curtains open so that a cool breeze can enter through my slat windows. Close the curtains and you suffocate from the heat. I woke up with a shock in deadly darkness. The nights are very dark here without power. That's how I knew it was 2am.
This is the second time now in the last couple of months that bastards stole some of the power cable, resulting in no power. The new generator I bought in November has never worked and twice been in to the fundi. Got it back yesterday, but it still doesn't work, so not only did I pay for a new generator, but I have to keep paying for the fundi to fix it and replace parts on a brand new generator. Sucks, doesn't it? The power came on again at 10pm after Siobhan and I played several scrabble games by candlelight.
But, what sucks the most, is we are supposed to be leaving tomorrow (Wednesday 13 April) for Kenya. Yesterday my car started overheating again, so in the afternoon I dropped it off with the fundi yet again. Whatever is causing the overheating must have made that hose burst. I just wish people here can do things right the first time, work quickly and efficiently. It's like my kitchen that's being renovated. They had five weeks to do it while I was away having surgery, but the started on the Friday before I returned on the Sunday. The result, three weeks later, is that I have a half-installed kitchen, no surface or bench-top to work on, all my pots, plates, groceries stacked on the floor and on the dining room table. Today, nobody came to do any work. Like I said, frustrating. If I ever get my car back in timeto go on this Kenyan holiday, I doubt I'll return to a completely renovated kitchen. My gut feelings is that this is going to drag on even longer.
Defective is out on Kindle, Sony and at Barnes and Noble and the Apple Store. You can see an exerpt here.

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Monday, February 28, 2011
Relaxing and recuperating
It's amazing how you can get used to pain. This has now been over two weeks of constant pain, and all I can think about are the poor people who experience constant pain on a daily basis year in and year out. Pain is wearying and slows you down. I don't know how those poor people do it. It can definitely get you down, that's for sure. But, I am still determined not to take painkillers and just let my body do its thing by itself. My last mastectomy I remember being completely zonked out on painkillers and I took so long to recover and eventually ended up being sent off for respite care and being treated for post-traumatic stress disorder. So this time I'm leaving it up to my mind and my body, and throwing away the drugs. Hopefully, this little experiment will work.
At least it gives me a clear mind to work on my different book projects! I wouldn't be able to do that if I was zonked out on drugs!
After the U2 concert, I decided I needed to retreat to a quiet place to let my mind and body do their work. Although I love my Mom to death, she is a little manic, racing here and there and when you stay with her you get caught up in her jetstream. I swear she has more energy and life in her than someone in their twenties. It can be exhausting being around her. So as my folks were staying in their Cape Town flat while my Mom organised the redecorating and renovating of my sister's house, their beautiful house in Hermanus was unoccupied. Kerri, my eldest daughter, and I decided to flee there and just relax.
The good thing, is when the pain gets too much or I get tired, I can lie on the couch and just read a book or watch TV. I don't have to rush off anywhere at any particular time. I haven't been able to do this for a very long time. There are always things that need to be done and deadlines which have to be met. Life can be hectic.
Despite all the relaxing I have managed to get a lot of work done. I've completed the first draft of my novel Defective; completed the research for How to say NO to sex and other survival tips for the suddenly single; and worked on the Diet chapter of Redesigning Yourself for the Multitasking Generation, the book I'm writing with the esteemed and reknowned homeopath, Jeremy Sherr. The good thing, is I can just work on them throughout the day when I feel like it. I wish everyday of my life could be like this and I can work full-time on my books. However, with a child still at school and a son at Hotel School I have to keep on working.
Kerri and I leave Hermanus on Thursday, and head back to Cape Town. I plan on taking Tony and his girlfriend to watch the Stormers play rugby at Newlands on Saturday. Kerri is not interested in seeing buffed men run around in tight shorts. Poor girl doesn't know what she's missing! Then a week of spending time visiting family and friends in Cape Town and then heading back to Tanzania. So in effect I have four more days to get as much work done on these books as possible. So what am I updating this blog for? Got to go!
love
Cindy
At least it gives me a clear mind to work on my different book projects! I wouldn't be able to do that if I was zonked out on drugs!
| The backyard at the Hermanus house at dusk. |
The good thing, is when the pain gets too much or I get tired, I can lie on the couch and just read a book or watch TV. I don't have to rush off anywhere at any particular time. I haven't been able to do this for a very long time. There are always things that need to be done and deadlines which have to be met. Life can be hectic.
| View from the lounge in the morning. |
Kerri and I leave Hermanus on Thursday, and head back to Cape Town. I plan on taking Tony and his girlfriend to watch the Stormers play rugby at Newlands on Saturday. Kerri is not interested in seeing buffed men run around in tight shorts. Poor girl doesn't know what she's missing! Then a week of spending time visiting family and friends in Cape Town and then heading back to Tanzania. So in effect I have four more days to get as much work done on these books as possible. So what am I updating this blog for? Got to go!
love
Cindy
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